It’s Wednesday again… which means more AMAZING wedding photography! Check out a few of our favorites from this week!
It’s Wednesday again… which means more AMAZING wedding photography! Check out a few of our favorites from this week!
Choosing a wedding ring is a big deal. In fact, it can be a scary business. Not only is the investment value huge but you often experience mixed emotions when picking something you are going to be wearing for the rest of your life.
If you are choosing a customised ring design however, half the battle is already won. You are already creating something completely unique to the person you love. Due to it being one-of-a-kind, it already carries more sentimental value and weight then purchasing a shop brought ring.
So how do diamond shapes come into all of this? Well, picking the right shape for your customised ring can bring it to a new level. The cut or shape is what gives the diamonds its depth and sparkly characteristics. The shape is also one of the first things you will notice and probably love (or hate) about the ring. So it’s important to know what is out there and which suits customised rings the best.
If you want to discover the best custom wedding rings in Sydney, head down to Delphi diamonds to discover some of the most beautiful shapes for your custom designs. Where you look can often be important as how you look, so choosing somewhere which has a range of first-class diamonds that come in a variety of shapes is crucial.
Let’s take a look at some popular shapes for engagement rings you may want to choose from:
We hope you love our stand-out shapes for customised engagement rings. Choosing the best for your fiancé will really depend on her personal preferences but these are some of the most radiant designs that suit customised designs wonderfully.
Never mind the dress, the rings, and the suits; there are many other smaller details to find money for on your special day!
If you’ve got your heart set on a frugal wedding, you might think buying is out of the question. However, while for some items hiring might be cheaper, buying others is more money conscious for the long-run. With this in mind, we’ve compiled a list of items for your big day that you should buy instead of hire!
Either they will likely be cheaper to buy than hire, or you can get enough use out of them afterward to make investing in them worthwhile!
A very practical aspect of your wedding is your tables, chairs and table decorations! No matter what kind of wedding you’re having, there are likely to be tables there of some sort or another. You’re going to need round and square tablecloths for weddings most often because these are the most common kinds of tables you’re likely to be using. Buy your tablecloths, because not only will they be cheaper, you’ll find a use for them in the future. Also, resist the temptation to hire glass drinks dispensers. They can be massively overpriced, and buying them could cost you either the same or less. Plus, they’re great to have in the kitchen for water or juice. Or you can use them for BBQs, picnics and dinner parties.
Unless you are an average size and height for your country, you’re going to struggle to find a dress that fits perfectly if you hire. Why? Because a hired dress can rarely be altered. However, don’t think this means that you have to spend into the thousands for a purchased dress. There are some fantastic wedding outlets out there that sell some bargain wedding dresses. For many of these dresses, there is absolutely nothing wrong with them! They are just from a few seasons ago. Or, they have been bought for a reduced price from a stockist or store that has gone out of business. This can mean discounts of up to 80%! They also stock accessories like veils, tiaras and shoes in outlets like this too (also massively reduced). After you’re done with the dress, you have the option to sell it and make some money back. Or, do something amazing and give it to charity! Be sure to attach a note to it for whoever buys it telling them the dresses story and wishing them luck!
Games and toys
A final item worth mentioning is any games or toys you decide to have as part of your wedding day. Maybe you will do a circus theme, and so have some hula hoops and Diablos! Maybe you’ll finish off a picnic lunch at a barn wedding with some garden games. Giant Connect 4 and Giant Jenga are great fun for kids and big kids! However, hiring these items could set you back a lot! Buying them won’t cost you all that much more. Instead, you can use them for your own kids or nieces and nephews at home in future!
A wedding is about joining two people together in a bond that will last a lifetime. Yet many modern couples face something beyond their unification, with the prospect of a huge bill at the end of it. We all know that weddings are expensive, yet we still manage to be surprised when we start getting quotes.
It’s at this point that the more frugal among us begin to worry. A wedding is a spectacular, wonderful occasion – but it is just one day in our lives. All being well, it’s something we’ll only do once. Yes we want it to be special – and spectacular would be welcome as well – but when the costs are running to a year’s wage, we look for other options.
Don’t worry – this is not the point where we will immediately begin to advocate a DIY wedding. You don’t have to spend any money at all! You can create everything you want with some innovation and Pinterest boards! This is the common suggestion for wedding money worries, but it has a drawback. For working couples, the idea of being able to spend hours making posies or creating banners just isn’t workable. A wedding is stressful enough without giving you lots of crafting requirements, which may or may not be suited to your abilities.
DIY weddings have their charm, and if it’s feasible, then it’s well worth considering. But for two many couples, it would just be swapping one stress for another.
The other option to consider is substitution. Look for something you want, decide on it and then go for something cheaper with a close-enough look to it. Yet couples don’t like this, for they don’t want to feel they have scrimped on their special day.
So where do you draw the line? You have to make a decision somewhere, and you’ve yet to find the money tree you’re half-hoping exists. The answer is in knowing where to draw the line. So which areas deserve the attention; where can you Splash Out, DIY and Substitute?
Splash Out: Money Spent Wisely
The Venue For The Ceremony
The ceremony is the actual part of the wedding that counts. A lot of couples fall into a trap of thinking the ceremony is only a small part, and the reception is what counts. Then they look back on their photos of the ceremony and are disappointed. While the reception is important, it’s what happens beforehand that really counts. Don’t be tempted into a cheap-and-cheerful ceremony with a lavish reception. At the very least, try and balance them, so they both have their own wonder.
Flowers and Lighting
The reception venue itself doesn’t need to be spectacular. A simple church hall or a hotel conference room; all you need is a canvas. When you have your blank base, then your money is best spent on the things that will make it wonderful.
Lighting is essential for any occasion, especially if you’re getting married in the months with shorter years. Always make sure you visit your potential reception venue both in the daytime and at night. You may think that floor-to-ceiling windows will allow plenty of light, but what if the day is overcast? If the lighting installed in the venue is insufficient, then use tripods or fairy lights to get it an extra lift. You can also incorporate lighting into the centerpieces.
Flowers are a staple of weddings, and for good reason. They signify flourishing beauty, and it’s an area you will regret skimping on. If you’re tired of the usual boring wedding arrangements, then go for tropical flowers from the likes of With Our Aloha and similar. They give a splash of fresh color and something unique that is all your own.
DIY: The Areas You Can Realistically Do For Yourself
The wedding may be considered to begin with the invitation, but it’s a tiny prelude. For most modern couples, Facebook exists. You don’t even need to send save-the-date cards if a simple email will suffice.
It’s less romantic and you won’t have anything to save, but it could save you a fortune. If you’re worried about losing face, then explain when doing your invites that you were hoping to get responses as soon as possible from them.
Yes, the precious dress. While it is a massive part of the wedding and something to be treasured, it is nevertheless an outfit that you are only going to wear once. Designer creations can run into the thousands.
There is so much mythology around the dress that it has almost taken on a life of its own. We’ve convinced brides that as soon as they find “the one”, it will have a magical and transforming property. It’s a neat bit of marketing; as the cost of dresses get more and more expensive, makers have convinced brides of their essential nature. It’s the kind of PR that millions of items would kill for.
Realistically, the only thing that matters is that you feel good in the dress. If you can look in the mirror and be happy, then nothing else is relevant to the situation. It doesn’t matter what the price tag is or what the label is; it’s how you feel in it.
If you find that you truly love a designer creation, then you can use it as the basis to create your own. Given the costs of some designer items, it can be cheaper to get a custom design by an experienced dressmaker. Plenty will offer the service, and have recommendations on cheaper fabrics that will still give the same overall impact.
These are just the beginnings of ideas. There are many other areas that you can apply the same tactics. Always question your motives for wanting something. Do you want something in your wedding because you actually desire it, or because you have been conditioned to think that you want it? If you ask this question often enough, you’ll soon begin to see the answers.
With the price of weddings going up and up, it’s unfortunate that your big day will also be big on price. But if you want a beautiful wedding without blowing all of your savings (or ending up in debt) luckily there are a few money-saving tricks you can try. Here are some of the ways you can reduce costs without compromising on the beautiful wedding of your dreams.
There are lots of elements for your wedding you can either make yourself or enlist help from your nearest and dearest. Always been a keen baker? Why not make your own wedding cake. Have a design graduate in the family? See if they would do your wedding invites and stationery for a reduced cost. If you’re good at something (or know someone who is) have a chat with them and see if they can help you to make some savings.
Do Your Own Flowers
Your wedding flowers are likely to take a huge chunk out of your budget. You can save money by putting together arrangements yourself. Look online for inspiration or flick through wedding magazines, there are lots of simple yet beautiful designs you could go for. You could source the flowers from a local flower shop or even a grocery store to cut costs down further. And then create your own arrangements with what you have.
Have a Fall or Winter Wedding
Weddings in the spring and summer will cost a lot more. Companies charge more at this time because they know they’re in higher demand. So expect to pay more for everything from your caterer to your photographer. Opting for a fall or winter wedding can be equally as beautiful but save you some serious cash. Alternatively having your wedding on a weekday as opposed to a weekend can also work out cheaper.
Buy Your Dress Online
There are a wealth of online dress shops these days which offer wedding dresses for a fraction of what you’d pay from a boutique. People can be put off as there are horror stories of terribly made gowns arriving, but if you do your research, you will be okay. Be sure to use a site who can provide you with photos of their own work as opposed to stock photos. And ask plenty of questions about the materials used and shipping times. Buy from a good website and no-one will ever know you saved yourself a huge chunk of money.
Ask Your Bridesmaids To Buy Their Own Dresses
These can really set you back money-wise, especially if you have a lot of bridesmaids. Have a chat with them and see if they would be willing to pay for, or at least contribute towards their dress. You can find full-length dresses on the highstreet that would save money compared to buying from a boutique. For each person to purchase their own, they should be easily affordable. But will save you from spending hundreds for all of the dresses combined. If you buy full-length dresses, you also won’t need to worry about buying all matching shoes. You could ask each of your maids to wear a pair of heels that they already own instead. Finally, if you choose a simple hairstyle and makeup design, they could do their own hair and makeup too.
Do Your Own Hair and Makeup
As well as asking your bridesmaids to do their own hair and makeup, you could consider doing your own too. Providing you don’t have your heart set on an intricate up-do, you could curl your hair easily yourself to make it look ultra glamorous. If you’re already confident about doing your own makeup, then this shouldn’t be a problem. You could experiment with different looks on the run-up to the big day.
Unlike your wedding (which is more than likely going to be a very sophisticated and formal affair) when it comes to your bachelorette party you have free reign to do just about anything you want. You could go for a meal or on a night out, go on a trip or holiday or even do something outdoorsy and adventurous. But throwing a party at home is an excellent choice, you can customize it to whatever you want and come up with loads of fun activities for people to do. Looking to throw a bachelorette party at home? Here are a few ideas to get you started!
Create a Bar/ Drinks Area
Keep the drinks flowing and everyone is bound to have a fantastic time. Put together a selection of drinks that will cover you across all bases- spirits, wines, beers and mixers. You could set up an area on a table or even buy a bar cart and add some fancy glasses, straws, ice and chopped fruit so people can put together their own drinks. You could buy a cocktail recipe book and leave it on the side for people to create their own cocktails! Alternatively you could buy some large drinks dispensers and mix up some cocktails yourself so they’re ready to be poured when your guests arrive.
Put Together Some Fun Activities
If it’s dry and warm enough, you could buy some giant lawn games which people will have fun playing. There are tonnes of question games, board games and fun and silly activities that you can get specifically for bachelorette parties, so have a browse and go with something that you think you and your friends will enjoy the most. You could put together a guest book so that people can write their well wishes, which will be a lovely thing to keep and look back on in years to come.
You could set up a DIY photo area with funny props or even hire a photo booth! This might be something you have considered for your wedding, but makes a great addition for a bachelorette party too. You’ll get loads of amazing photos, and if it’s not very often that you manage to get all of the girls together it’s especially important to capture the night.
Serve Up Some Delicious Food
If you are a good cook or baker, now is the time to put your skills to some good use! There are plenty of cute bachelorette party cakes, cupcakes and cookies on Pinterest to inspire you. Alternatively you could cheat and go to a baker, or even get caterers in. You could go for a sit down meal to start the night for something more formal, or just serve up canapes and finger food depending on the kind of atmosphere you want to create at your party.
With your best friends with you it’s bound to be an amazing night however you decide to celebrate. So have fun and make it a party to remember!
You’ve made it halfway through the week and fall is coming soon so we thought that we’d reward you with a few absolutely gorgeous fall wedding photos! Have a beautiful day friends!
Wedding vows can oftentimes be a nerve wracking part of the wedding ceremony for the bride and groom, especially if they’re personally written ones. This guy goes above and beyond the normal traditional wedding vows and sings a compilation of songs to his bride to express exactly how he feels! Love it!
We always love seeing adorable wedding proposals but how cute is this candlelit outdoor proposal? He even involved their families in asking the questions!
You have been gifted with organising the bachelorette party for one of your closest friends. It’s an honour to be asked, and you don’t want to let her down. So how do you throw an extra special bachelorette party?
The Guest List
First up you need to find out who is on the guest list. You can help the bride-to-be choose, but no doubt she already knows whom she wants to come. You may have to take into consideration that there will be older guests coming, like moms or aunts. However, still be sure that the party is tailored to the bride-to-be. Older guests could come for afternoon celebrations before the naughty shenanigans start. Or they may want to join in too! A paperless invitation app is a super way to get those invites out and to keep track of who can attend. They let you customise beautiful online invitations for a plush effect.
You will need to find out what kind of bachelorette party your friend wants. You want to create an unforgettable experience. Some ladies like feather boas, party paraphernalia and naughty games and gifts. Others may prefer a glamorous event with little black dresses and a hotel stay. Will you be staying close to home or is this a chance to go all out and organise a girls’ holiday abroad? If you are considering other destinations, choose a warm climate and a city that knows how to party. Bali, Hawaii or Australia are the ultimate in luxury. A Party on a river cruise in Perth might suit your group down to the ground. You could then spend some time touring the city as a group and adding in adventures such as Jetpacking, sailing or swimming with whale sharks. You also need to decide if there is to be a colour theme. The girls could all dress in black, and the bride could wear a standout colour. Or you may all want to go pink or metallic. Looking your best on the night is key, so take a peek at my post on smoothing shapewear that guarantees the perfect silhouette.
Money is the tricky one. Some in the group may be high earners, and others not so. Pick a budget that suits everyone and stick to it. Make sure everyone pays beforehand. Don’t let the bride know the cost and certainly don’t leave it to her to collect the money. This is the job of head bridesmaid.
Favours and Games
This is a chance to gather stories about the bachelorette from the past. Get everyone who is attending to email you at least one funny or embarrassing tale. You’re not aiming for full-on humiliation here, just some sweet nostalgia. Provide mini goodie bags for all the guests. Include a disposable camera for each, so that they can take pictures at the party. You can then create a memory book as a keepsake. Think about including some props. These could be anything from Playboy bunny ears to silly moustaches. Crowdsigns make some awesome photo props that create hours of endless snapping opportunities.
The most important point to remember is to have fun! You are involved in part of the last few weeks of celebrating your best friend as a single girl. Give her a dazzling send-off. And if you’re not yet married, I’m sure she’ll be returning the favour soon!